The Pretty Things In Life

Friday, January 16, 2009

tonight, me and my girls met for our weekly dosage of each other and for dinner at the same time. we chatted over lots of stuff and eventually the topic came down to 'relationships.' wooh thats tricky.

we've grown up having each other and so there is never a lack of listening ear or a shoulder to cry on. yeah we're considered lucky. like no matter how fucked up ur life is at the moment, u know there's always someone for u to turn to. we're so close, comfortable and there is this unexplainable connection between us that we each can just blurt out whatever the fuck we feel. because of this, i think this makes us very deep and emotional people. (pampered too) haha.

yeah. i heard. people saying that having a 'click' is so childish n secondary school or whatever crap. seriously, i dont give a shit with what they wanna say. we love each other and the connection is not fake. wait, why am i side tracking? lol

back to our topic of the day, relationships. yeah. because of the attention and the satisfying advice we always get frm our girlfriends at the end of a bad day, we agree that we are deeply emotional people. like there is a certain kind of need for our boyfriends to be deep too. (ok this sounds wrong) EMOTIONALLY. girls agree (me too) that when u wanna express ur emotions to him, his respond is never satisfying. for example "dear, im sad" instead of asking "whats wrong..." (in a nice way).. he'll go like "what now?" i think most girls will be able to relate with what i mean. (if they've experienced it)

well, i think its in most guy's nature to be less affectionate (i dont know if im using the right word). they dont usually open up and have a heart to heart talk with their friends. so this is new to them. being more caring and a good listener is something thats not easy. n this is a problem. because once a girl is in a kind of a relationship where she feels there is no point in telling u her problems (because she doesnt get the comfort she needs at the end of it or, she would feel worse) then.... thats a bad bad sign.

well, i just think that its not hard to be a good boyfriend. all u gotta be is just a good listener and be caring. (at least this is what Maria thinks how MY boyfriend should be like) lol. she thinks my requirements are easy. at which i think so too. im not a difficult person. (is this an advertisement or what?) no but seriously. i think u just need basic etiquette of a human being to be attractive. HAHAHA. its simple. u're the guy and im the girl. dont try to be the girl (merajok n stuff. come on thats so girlish)

you know what im gonna stop here cos im so sleepy tears rolling down my cheeks. i'll talk about this again some other time.

oh i realise my entry today has lots of brackets. (haha)

i wonder if this entry is meaningful at all? or did i just wasted an hour of my time and didnt get my message across? ok whatever. sleepy. chao.

smiled at 12:19 AM

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